It is because
we attract the kind of people in our lives that we project out to them that we deserve.
If you place
value on yourself and demonstrate self-love and self-respect, then you are
going to attract people in your life who will look at you in the same manner
and thus, treat you the way that you demand. Further, you will also be letting everyone know that you come in contact
with that you are valuable and worthy of being treated with respect when you
treat yourself this way.
People may
mistreat you but they can only continue to do this if you allow it.
One of the main
reasons that individuals stay in relationships that are unhealthy is because they
don’t believe that they deserve any better. They may have low self-esteem and
self-worth.
Decide that
you are going to live your life by loving yourself and implementing
self-respect and this will project to others to look at you in the same fashion.
When someone
does not treat you with respect, it usually is not because of anything to do
with you but something in them as to why. Sometimes, other people are just not in a place in their lives in which they are capable of treating others appropriately. This is not a reflection on you.
When you grow in self- love and self-respect, you will be able to be emotionally strong enough to walk away from people like this. At least, build an appropriate boundary line with them.
When you grow in self- love and self-respect, you will be able to be emotionally strong enough to walk away from people like this. At least, build an appropriate boundary line with them.
YOU ARE
WORTHY AND VALUABLE and remember - that if someone does not see this or treat
you as such, it DOES NOT DECREASE YOUR VALUE!
You
are altogether beautiful, my love; there is no flaw in you. Song of Solomon 4:7
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