Monitor
your moods on a daily basis and rate ‘feeling bad’ on a scale from 1 to 10. Take
notice when you feel worse than other times and process the reasons why. Make
plans to change how you react to these mood patterns.
Do
not allow yourself to go on an emotional downward spiral. When you start to
feel bad, do not let it have snowball effect. Recognize it for what it is and
do not let your thoughts take you further down. Tell yourself that you are having
a difficult time but that it will not keep you down and that you will overcome
it.
Implement a positive and / or productive distraction when you start to feel low in spirits.
Find
meaning in loss or hard times. Learn from them and use them to help others and
to grow stronger.
Demonstrate
self- care. Get sunshine and fresh air. Brisk walk outside. Read scripture.
Rest. Eat healthy. Drink water. Think of a peaceful place in your mind. Take
slow deep breaths.
Talk
to someone who cares and who you trust.
Re-visit in your mind--your passions and purpose in life.
Count your blessings.
Re-visit in your mind--your passions and purpose in life.
Count your blessings.
Pray.
God cares about every detail of your life.
Take a bath by candle light.
Listen to Christian / Worship music.
Take a bath by candle light.
Listen to Christian / Worship music.
Journal about why / where you believe your sadness is coming from.
Remember
that emotional pain is temporary.
Demonstrate
positive self-talk about yourself and your situation.
Let go of what you do not have control over.
Forgive yourself and others.
Let go of guilt and shame.
Choose JOY!
Seek counseling and/ or a support group.
Let go of what you do not have control over.
Forgive yourself and others.
Let go of guilt and shame.
Choose JOY!
Seek counseling and/ or a support group.
By Diane Gammon MS
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